
Connah: "Once we have grown up, we can't go back to being little again aye?"
Me: "No. Do you think you'll want to?"
Connah: "I think I'll still want to be littler sometimes."
Me: "How big do you think you'll want to go back to being?"
Connah: "Exactly how big I am now."
And that, right there, is how I know I'm doing OK.
It's easy to get caught up in the worry and stress of all the dangers out to get our children - Are they watching too much T.V? Are they eating the right kind of food? Do they play independently and / or socially enough? Are their friends a good influence? Are they going to the right school? Should they be going to school at all?! What if their teacher is on DRUGS?!? Or is a PEDOPHILE!?! What if there is a NATURAL DISASTER?! HOLY CRAP THEY ARE NEVER LEAVING THE HOUSE AGAIN!!!!!!
I don't often doubt myself, however I do have a tendency to obsess over details.
But when Connah said that, it blew right through all the stress and exposed the simple truth:
My child is happy. And he is self-aware enough to recognize that.
I am doing awesome.
xox
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